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A Prince story

I went looking for the ticket stub today but couldn’t find it. I’ve kept the stubs from almost every concert and ballgame I’ve ever been to, but somehow this one slipped away. That’s OK. The memory holds.

We camped out all night for tickets. In the ’80s you had two options if you wanted tickets for a big concert. You called Ticketmaster the morning they went on sale and listened to a busy signal over and over for six hours. Or you stood in line all night at a ticket outlet. We stood in line because Prince was bringing his Purple Rain tour to the Omni in Atlanta and we had to be there.

So we took a place on the sidewalk outside a record store called Turtle’s in Athens, Ga., sometime on the evening of Nov. 30, 1984. I know the date because the Georgia-Georgia Tech football game was the next day. My friends Virgil and Perry, who went to Tech, were coming for the game anyway so they got there early to camp out for tickets. Our friends David and Andy joined us, even though they weren’t going to the show, because it sounded like fun and also because we had Jack Daniels.

Pretty soon the line went down the sidewalk and up the side of the parking lot and across the back side of the lot next to the street. It’s hard to stay up all night, even when you’re 20 years old. Andy and I amused ourselves by doing Scooby-Doo impressions. It’s possible we did this for hours, and possible that the people near us in line threatened to kill us if we didn’t stop. My memory is a little hazy on that part.

What I do remember is that Prince’s music was everywhere. Somebody had “Dirty Mind” on a boombox, and somebody else had “D.M.S.R.” blasting from a car, and everything from the “Purple Rain” soundtrack was all over the radio. It struck me how diverse the crowd was for a mostly white Southern college town. You could love Prince for the guitar licks and the funk grooves and the dirty lyrics and the perfect pop melodies. You could love him if you were straight or gay or something else. He erased every line in the sand and did it in platform shoes. He was the coolest thing I had ever seen.

If I remember right, the tickets went on sale at 10 in the morning. At 10:05 somebody with a bullhorn said the show was sold out. Only a few people at the front of the line had gotten seats. The rest of us moaned and cussed. All that time for nothing.

Then the bullhorn clicked on again.

“He’s adding more shows!”

Today I know they probably had more shows scheduled all along and just wanted to make sure people were in line to buy the tickets. But that morning, it felt like a miracle. After another half-hour or so we made it into the store and bought three seats for the fourth show of five. Our seats were behind the stage. We didn’t care. The show was five weeks away. I held that ticket close every day.

Sheila E. was the opener. Like Prince, she was gorgeous and she could really play. At the end they cut the lights and she did a percussion solo with neon drumsticks. She would have been an A-plus club show by herself. But then, after intermission, the lights went down again. It’s one of my favorite moments in the world, when you’re at a big show and all of a sudden it goes dark and you know the thing you’ve been waiting on for so long is about to happen.

Dearly beloved …

He opened with “Let’s Go Crazy” / “Delirious” / “1999” / “Little Red Corvette” — four homers to start off the game, parked in the upper deck. Nobody sat down after that. I’m not sure we breathed for the next two hours, except maybe for laughing along with “International Lover.” I can’t find a bootleg from that night — if you know of one, holler — but back then “Baby I’m a Star” was routinely going 15 to 30 minutes, with multiple solos and dances and whatnot. I remember never wanting it to stop. The band was so tight — one of the many things Prince did was bring the joy of a hot live band to a concert scene being taken over by synths and drum machines. He stood in the middle of it all, ripping guitar solos and screaming the high notes and dancing like James Brown crossed with a stripper. They hit the long breakdown to end it and walked off the stage and we all just stood there spent.

That was encore 1.

Encore 2 was “Purple Rain.”

The words of “Purple Rain” are about a breakup, but the music is gospel. They could play those chords in a Baptist church on Sunday and it would fit right in.  I’ve been to a lot of concerts in my life, and a couple that equaled that night, but I’ve never been to another show that was so much at once — so many different styles, so many brilliant ideas, so many connections that no one had made before Prince came along.

The music built to that last big solo, and we swayed in the purple light.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Good dog. Good, good dog.

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Our dog Fred passed peacefully Thursday at about 7 p.m. Alix and I were there by his side, along with the amazing Dr. Mary Fluke, who had cared for him since he was a puppy. We told stories and laughed and cried like children.

He had a good last few days. We discovered right near the end that he liked tuna fish, and he must’ve eaten half a tuna’s worth. At my mama’s wise suggestion, we also fed him bacon. (When in doubt, have some bacon.) The food perked him up. Most days lately he hadn’t had enough strength to take his normal walk to the end of the block and back. But on Wednesday, he pulled us down there and then another whole block. On Thursday we took him on one last car ride. He watched out the back window as we drove him through the streets he knew so well.

After I wrote about Fred’s dying days a few weeks ago, I heard from hundreds of people all over the world. Some had stories of their own old dogs. Some had young animals they vowed to love as much as possible. Some people just wanted to say they were sorry for our loss. Alix and I are sorry, too. But also grateful.

I’m writing this Thursday night. Nearly every night for the last 14 years, one of us has let him out before we all went to bed. We’ve spent so many nights standing in the cool air on the street we love, staring at the stars, listening to one of the neighborhood owls, or just watching Fred prance around the yard and catalog all the new smells. He brought us those moments and a million more.

I didn’t know what to do tonight so I walked out in the yard and stared at the stars and thanked him again for coming into our lives.

He was the best dog.

 

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Chilly Willy

I saw Larry Major a couple weeks ago. He was sober and pleasant. Not many people have seen him that way. Most of us here in Charlotte know him as Chilly Willy. He was our city’s most famous alcoholic.

He died Thursday night, hit by a car.

I first remember seeing him over on East Boulevard, harassing people on the patio at Brixx Pizza. For the last couple of years he liked to hang out on Central Avenue, not far from our house. He rarely asked for money. If he did, and you didn’t give it to him, he cussed at you. Most of the time he just cussed at you.

One afternoon, driving down Central, I swerved to avoid a garbage bag in the edge of my lane. As I got close I saw it wasn’t a garbage bag. It was Chilly, passed out in the gutter. I started to turn around, then saw a car pulling over to check on him. I drove on. I wish I’d gone back. But I didn’t.

He was famous enough locally that every once in a while somebody would put him on YouTube. If he was clearheaded enough, he could pick and sing a little. I’m not surprised he knew that Charlie Daniels song.

If you don’t like the way I’m livin’,
You just leave this long-haired country boy alone.

He had wild hair and mangled hands and the Harley wings tattooed on his forehead. Some people get silly drunk. Some people get mopey drunk. Chilly was angry drunk. He scared a lot of people. Other ones just laughed at him.

The Urban Ministry Center decided to help him.

I’ve been doing some work for Urban Ministry lately, talking to homeless people so I can tell some of their stories at True Blessings, Urban Ministry’s big fundraiser next month. At this point I’m going to quit calling him Chilly and start calling him Larry, because that’s what the folks at Urban Ministry called him. They saw Chilly Willy as a character. They tried to get to the real person.

They put Larry in an apartment at Moore Place, which was built to take homeless people off the streets and give them a place to live. That sounds expensive, and it is. But it doesn’t cost nearly as much as the drain on police, fire and medical resources when a homeless person goes to the ER, or to jail, again and again and again. You might have heard Malcolm Gladwell’s story about Million-Dollar Murray. Larry was Charlotte’s Million-Dollar Murray.

We had decided not to make Larry part of the True Blessings program because he liked the spotlight a little too much. Also, it was impossible to tell what mood he’d be in. One day, I was walking into Moore Place with Urban Ministry head Dale Mullennix as Larry was walking out. “Having a good day, Larry?” Dale said. “WHAT’S GOOD ABOUT IT?” Larry hollered as he walked by.

The people living at Moore Place can come and go as they please. They can drink, because drinking is legal. The idea is to bring people in, get them safe and settled, and then slowly set boundaries and deal with their issues. They have social events over there, sandwich-and-soda sorts of things, and they had told Larry he couldn’t come if he couldn’t behave. A staffer told me she saw him standing outside the glass doors one day, watching the party inside, not knowing if he’d be welcomed. Finally a couple of the other residents fixed him a plate and led him in.

The last time I saw him, a couple weeks ago, we were at Moore Place to talk to a few residents. Photographer Mark Edward Atkinson had a couple of people come out in the lobby, where the light was good. Larry wandered by and noticed this. He kept edging in closer. Mark asked if he would mind having his picture taken. He knew that’s what Larry wanted. So Larry leaned on a chair and started talking, clear-eyed and polite. He talked about photography, and music, and tattoos, and the streets, while Mark took pictures. He came over and shook my hand. He thanked all of us for spending time with him.

Charlotte knew Chilly Willy. I’m glad I got to meet Larry Major. I wish more people could have gotten to know him. I wish he could have been that person more.